On the other hand why in the name of gods little green apples are you dating such a man.
When was the last time an abusive person walked up and said "Hi! I'm an abusive person. Want to go out on a date with me?"
Just point blank like that? He probably fronted a good initial game. Cracks didn't show til later. *shrug*
It isn't her fault he's loopy. I say good for her -- 2 mos in and she's ready to bail before it gets crazier. Just needs help doing so. I've seen people stuck in abusive relationships for years. Ugh.