Originally Posted by DrunkenPorcupine
I don't control who I connect with and fall in love with. If they are poly, they're poly. If they're mono, they're mono.
Yup. I haven't met many poly people in my area except for a few in meetups, and there's only one that I would consider getting into a relationship with (have a date with her Wednesday!) so I just date monos casually (and honestly!) and if I happen to hit it off with any of them and they want to try being with a poly guy, great. If not, that's fine too.