Originally Posted by Spock
Wait, are you sure this is really your husband's child?
Even if you do break up with him he can still try to assert paternity, so be prepared to deal with that. It sounds like even if you don't break up with him he will still assert paternity!
My concern isn't with who loves who, you are grown adults and can deal with it. The child never asked for any of this and deserves to be treated with respect.
I have no idea who the bio father is. It's all about when I concieved, it's either 2 weeks before I met him or two weeks after. Not sure just yet.
I'm not worried about love, I'm worried about him being harmful to my family, legally and emotionally. I just don't know how to push him away when he keeps taking care of me.