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Old 04-03-2010, 11:06 AM
Ariea Ariea is offline
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Default New, looking for advice / support

Hi, I'm new to this forum and I've come here in hopes of getting help with dealing with being the partner in a polyamorous relationship. I'm not sure what section to post in for help / advice.

The difficulty is in my boyfriend's other relationship. I have a very hard time not blaming myself, thinking that I am not good enough, or that I have done something wrong when he leaves to spend time with the other person. How do you get past it? How do you not be depressed and take it out on yourself? I am miserable but I don't know how to make the pain stop. I just font understand why I'm not "good enough" that he wouldn't want to leave me for the other person.
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