Hello everyone. I'm fairly new to the poly community, since I've only been in it for about two years. I've had various monogamous relationships over the years, but they all failed, some quite spectacularly. I've also been in three poly relationships, two of which ended badly, and one is kind of shaky at best. I honestly don't know what to do right now to make it better. Anyhow, I'm here, and would like some advice, both on how to make relationships better and on how to establish new ones that stand a better chance of working out.