Well, I found this thread
Which pointed to this one
But there's this link
, which seems to be fairly thorough (as of 2011). Searching for "legal" on the site will get you the other states as well.
Mono. Divorced, two kids (DanceGirl, 15; and PokéGirl, 12), two cats, one house, many projects.
My partner. Poly.
Chops' other nesting partner, Poly. Also in a relationship with Shaggy
Chops' other other partner (heh). Married, Poly.
Poly, in a relationship with Xena
External mono/poly blog: From Baltic to Boardwalk