Well, I found this thread
Which pointed to this one
But there's this link
, which seems to be fairly thorough (as of 2011). Searching for "legal" on the site will get you the other states as well.
Mono. Divorced, two kids (DanceGirl, 14; and PokéGirl, 12), two cats, one house, many projects.
My partner. Poly. In relationships with me, Xena, and Noa.
Poly. In a relationship with Chops. Dating others.
Married, Poly. In a relationship with Chops.
External blog with a mono/poly focus: From Baltic to Boardwalk