When I introduced my primary partner to poly, we went through the swingers community first so he could have the opportunity to have some spontaneous sexual experiences with multiple partners.
I am a social extrovert with lots of relationship/sexual experience whereas he is an introvert and didn't have a lot of sexual experience.
We discussed our boundaries which in the beginning was simply that we would be together at all times for anything sexual to happen and we would use safe sex of course.
We now identify as poly and he is super cool about the whole thing. We never really felt like we were swingers, but being in that environment allowed an opening to happen! Now that he has had these experiences, he is way more open!! We are free to pursue relationships with others and we discuss everything with each other! It's awesome!
The key to life is in being fully engaged and peacefully detached simultaneously and authentically in each moment.
Last edited by idealist; 12-13-2013 at 10:53 PM.