Kids are not an issue, hers all all grown and have kids of their own. She was "fixed" (full hysterectomy) shortly after her third and last child.
We've been married 8 years (almost 9 now... 1/1/14 will be 9), so "a quick divorce" is kind of out of the question.
I'm not to happy about the "bait-and-switch" either, but in comparison to everything else that I did like about use as a couple at the time, it was something I chose to live with. I don't know if that choice is going to last forever though.
ETA: Oh, and thanks for the welcome!
Last edited by RichardInTN; 12-13-2013 at 07:33 AM.
Reason: to add my ETA