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Old 04-02-2010, 04:04 PM
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I have to say that I tried to read the Ethical Slut but it just wasn't doing it for me - the stuff it was talking about just wasn't "my reality", so it was of little use.

I actually found a book called "Open Marriages" by O'Neill to be really helpful. It's not really strictly about polyamory (nor swinging) but it has a ton of the groundwork of what an existing relationship needs to work on in order to make poly work.
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