At this point, I'm taking it as it comes. I still have Friday nights free on the weekends and possibly Sundays if my boyfriend has to work, which he sometimes does. This weekend I am going out with a new potential partner Friday night and then have Saturday night through Monday morning reserved for my boyfriend because he doesn't have to work Sunday like he originally thought.
I'm not saying I know this will work out perfectly long term, but for this week, at least, it's working. Maybe that's naive and short sighted of me, but you never know what can happen.
I guess I'll learn as I go. And as long as I keep being honest with everyone in the process, everyone is given the choice to participate in the scene however they wish.
It's been very helpful to get everyone's input here, so thank you.