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Old 12-12-2013, 02:31 AM
Tigergirl Tigergirl is offline
Join Date: Dec 2013
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@BigGuy and Inyourendo I think "shunning" is perhaps a strong term for the situation- more like less inclined to want to get to know better. The person who related the story to me had previously expressed interest in being involved in BDSM play with my partner- she would most likely not choose to do so if he had anti Semitic views or condoned them. I think that's a pretty reasonable personal boundary to have. Also, because some of these friends hold private events in their homes, if they don't feel comfortable inviting her, it might play out that he is invited to socialize less as well in order to prevent her participation. It has already happened once where I was the one specifically invited so that I would bring him as my date, rather than him being extended an invitation and possibly having the opportunity to invite her, although at the time I did not realize why.
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