Don't overthink it. Someone came up to you and initiated a conversation you found disturbing. Don't make it about your metamour as much as being about the act of having been confronted and questioned by someone, and how uncomfortable it made you. You don't even have to ask if it is true or not, just report back what happened and your concerns for him. Keep it simple. And I think the longer you wait to just come out and say it, the bigger it will get in your mind and the more difficult you will make it to come out and relay what happened. Crikey, pick up the phone and tell him.
Last edited by nycindie; 12-11-2013 at 07:47 PM.