Very true Twig.
I don't have sex with GG while Maca is in the house-ever.
I do have sex with Maca and GG can hear us-GG and I talk about it frequently.
But it's not as big an issue for GG. He gets a bit aggravated if it's keeping him up when he's tired, but generally we go to bed a good 2-3 hours before he does.
Maca on the otherhand has been very clear that at this point he's not able to handle that-so we don't do it.
AND even if I weren't in a poly relationship-when/if I ever build my own house-the inside walls/floors will have insulation because I FLAT HATE getting woken up by the kids/animals in the mornings!!!
"Love As Thou Wilt"