Originally Posted by Natja
I have children, I really don't like you implying that people who dislike vetoes just don't understand family responsibility.
I really do not see the point of having a veto against a person who might be on drugs or is a psycho...I mean, really, for realz? You expect your husband or yourself to get into a relationship with a crack addict and want to continue....that is a little bit sad that you don't trust each other NOT to do that that you even need a veto for it.
I don't know what London was saying but I don't get it.
I have children. 19, 10, and 7.
We do not have a veto power. We trust each other to be responsible adults and not bring people with unacceptable habits, issues, or lifestyles into their lives.
And yes I am in a long term relationship. Been with Butch 13 years and Murf 2 years.