Originally Posted by london
I would mind my own business. There are lots of reasons why she may believe what she said. I'm not saying it is true, but it might be true in her experience.
Someone else made it her business. It's not like she overheard it. Someone directly confronted her about it. That means it's bad enough that it's affecting her life as well.
I say bring it up just to be like, "Is any of this true? Because people are saying this to me."