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Old 12-11-2013, 05:03 AM
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T Think of it this way: if you don't say something and he is shunned or cut off from his friends, and they tell him why, how do you think it would feel to him if he went to you, told you what happened and you respond with, "Oh yeah, so-and-so told me that about two mos. ago." Eek.
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