Originally Posted by lisbeth
Wait, is RedPepper posting on the "New to Polyamory" board? hmmm... I wouldn't have considered you a newbie.
Also, I'm a little confused that you're asking for advice on dating a married woman... when you're a married woman... you know first hand what things generally work and don't work in that situation, right?
Well I'm new to this and don't want to presume I know anything about it if I haven't experienced it before. Everyone I have dated has had no kids and is unattached thus far in terms of a primary relationship in the form of a marriage.
I am married yes. I hadn't thought of it that way, strangely enough lisbeth. I will think on what I would want more I guess. Could be helpful, thank you.
I should probably not assume what I want is what she would want. I will have to talk about it more. If we ever get a chance!