So your new partner would be told too bad so sad but you can't see me on weekends because my boyfriend comes first.
Who in their right mind would be ok with being told that your wants and needs don't matter?
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.