Re (from cpgermanicus
"How did you find out you were poly/get involved with it?"
Quite simply, I fell in love with a married woman, and she did the research on the web to find out how we could resolve the situation in an ethical win-win-win manner. It was through that research that we first heard words such as "polyamory" and "polyfidelity."
Of course it helped that I'd been rebelling against everything for several years before this falling-in-love thing.
That's our story in a nutshell.