Originally Posted by bofish
That's not quite what I mean...what I mean is how to you avoid the temptation to get involved if you like the person. And do have women on here had a lot of married guys come onto them via cupid or craiglist? How do you find potential dates that are single or poly? Also, can you ever be friends with someone you cheated with?
I'm never tempted. I don't care how much I like a person, I don't like drama and bullshit AND I HATE BEING LIED TO.
As someone who has cheated; when someone is willing to make an excuse for why it's ok to lie (which is what cheating is); they are willing to make excuseS for lying. So it's only a matter of time before they lie to me. I don't care if they are lying about what their favorite color is, who they are sleeping with or what their phone number is.
I don't do lying.
I would MUCH MUCH rather someone tell me things I won't like than lie to me. So when I know someone is lying, I am not interested. Not at all.