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Old 12-09-2013, 04:37 PM
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On one level, it is inexplicable to me that cheating is better tolerated than ethical non-monogamy. I don't understand that at a deep level
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Because I think people can empathise with the restrictions of a monogamous relationship. Especially if you aren't as compatible as you should be, particularly in the bedroom. They can understand why a young woman might have a Sugar Daddy type affair with a married man. Also, people understand you holding out to replace someone else in a monogamous relationship. They dont understand not wanting to replace or displace. They can't understand being openly okay with sharing though some might be okay with nobody officially knowing you share.
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