Murf is hard wired for monogamy and has never given me a problem with me being poly.
He fell in love with me and understood and accepted me for me.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.