Can't help on the teaching someone to Dom thing.
I can verbally Dom anyone.
But once we're talking about ANYTHING sexual-it's GONE. Just GONE. That D part of my personality flees like it's being chased by WringWraiths!
Maca is sitting behind me-he says his only piece of advice is that the only way a Dom can be an effective Dom is to COMPLETELY understand what the Sub wants/needs and then be confident in their ability to Do/provide whatever that is....
I guess I can add-having people who've THOUGHT they would try to Dom me-that it also requires that the Dom believes in themself as a person. If they are just "faking it" they will come off as cocky or arrogant and for many subs (never say all) that will fall WAY WAY FLAT.
"Love As Thou Wilt"