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Old 12-08-2013, 02:52 PM
london london is offline
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I would add that this man, after nearly 25 years together announced to me one day that he has been "poly" for the past 15 years and has engaged in nearly a dozen sexual relationships, all of them without protection, and all of them without my knowledge.
So that is trustworthy, respectful behaviour? Oh, well if he is trustworthy and respectful of you I go back to what else I said: give him a way to fluid bond with other partners without having to give up sex with you. You've said he is trustworthy, so trust him to be worthy.
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