Dagferi, I think you have missed multiple statements I have made:
1. finances are completely un-intertwined and so are all living arrangements. Irrelevant but you brought it up after I explicitely said this.
2. I have no interest in being in a relationship, period. I explicitely said this as well.
You are misunderstanding what I am saying and not hearing it. I want to know I am not the only one who has been in this situation before, for moral support as I go at this journey alone. I am not entering relationships of any variety until I am completely comfortable with myself. I don't know how more explcicit I can be about this.
I come and ask for compassion and understanding, to not feel alone while in a tough situation and I receive only a critique of the perceived manner in which events have unfolded. I must say I am disappointed.