Yeah, I am not interested in pursuing any relationship right now. I want to come to terms with this new perspective on my own and then reach out some time down the road.
This is why I was interested in people's own experiences.
I am with you on ending the marriage, don't think that I am not but she is asking for explanations and after the better part of a decade (only married 2 1/2 years) I think she deserves explanations. So the question is not what to do but how and that is where I am stuck.
She deserves closure, she's been a loyal partner and I need to reconcile giving her that while being honest with myself and her. I don't want to needlessly drag her into my personal issues though. So where is the line?