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Old 12-07-2013, 07:52 PM
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Let me put it to you this way. My marriage was pretty solid when I started my poly journey.

It almost destroyed my marriage. Poly will put a spotlight on every crack and flaw in your marriage and make those flaws magnify.

Poly does not fix damaged relationships. It never fixes what is broken.

Again do the right thing and get your shit together before perusing Polyamory.

The she won't let go is a BS excuse. She can not hold onto you if you do not want her to. Do things the right way. Again it is not fair to drag another person into your shit storm. People are not experiments.
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