It takes two to fight.
Remove yourself from the situation. Go stay with family and out friends. Out get yourself somewhere to stay.
Seek counseling... Either marriage or at least individual.
Stop making excuses and do the right thing.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 50/50 split of time between my two husbands.