Originally Posted by Dagferi
Then divorce her... Get your ducks in line. (All of them) Then worry about poly.
You have unfinished businesses that needs to be taken care of and it its NOT FAIR to pull someone into a potential shit storm.
I agree which is why I had the conversation with her but she seems to disagree and is refusing to quit fighting. So now I feel that I need to bring all these other things which are really me issues not us issues into the equation.