Originally Posted by noob
That makes me feel better to know others come to it for that reason. It sort of feels like "fake" poly somehow
I kind of felt the same way, especially after reading "The Ethical Slut", which, instead of giving me the guidance I was hoping for only confused me because this isn't a "ZOMG must have sex with lots of people" thing for me.
I feel weird using the term poly to describe our new situation because it seems to imply many partners as opposed to the "V" I'm apparently the "hinge" on (or is it a W, since my boyfriend is a part of a "V: that his girfriend's the "hinge" on…Oh the terminology!) :P