We were in a three way relationship when we first got together a long time ago. Since then we really haven't seen anyone else. Last year we talked about being poly how we missed having someone else in our lives. Last year we agreed that we would try and fund a third a woman join us. For months we had not found anyone . Then recently a friend suggested that we try ok Cupid. We each made a profile but we never discussed what we wanted . Until now . I had suggested we talk many times bit it never happened. Now he has started an online relationship with someone. I am feeling insecure since we never discussed anything . I am the one feeling insecure and I am not getting any reassuring advice from him.
I know we want a poly relationship. We just did not star out they way ithink we should have.