Originally Posted by Inyourendo
Those are some pretty strict boundaries for being poly 15 years. You and he were seeing each other and she pulled a Vito because you guys kissed and he didnt get her permission first? Honestly this sounds like a situation I would run away.
He was given her "blessing" / "permission" but I believe she assumed nothing would happen. I think it was hurtful to her to be blindsided. I didn't communicate my feelings.