You can't make a leopard into a tiger.
Stop trying to change Bambi by forcing him into a relationship he truly doesn't want.
I have never had Butch try to manage my emotions in regards to Murf or anyone I dated.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.