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Old 12-06-2013, 01:48 PM
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You are not hurting him! He is hurting himself by refusing to accept reality. This is something he needs to work out for himself - no amount of concessions and sacrifices you make for him will help if he simply only wants things his way. Shit, he should be grateful his gf is honest and not a bullshitter/game-player!

Just keep being true to yourself. He can either accept you for who you are and accept the parameters you want for your relationship... or not.
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