Originally Posted by noob
We are so conditioned to think "oh, if you really love someone...there will never be another," or "you have to choose," you know?
Go you!!! This, I think, is the biggest thing that's different between us and people who cheat. Loving someone else doesn't necessarily mean your feelings have changed for the one who was there first. I'm really glad to hear it went so well for you. Keep the conversation flowing and great things can happen.