I still think letting it go for now is better, but that's me. You are you.
You could ask if she is willing/able to consider polyshipping with you at this time. And be prepared to accept her answer -- even if it is is "No. I do not want to consider it. I already know I don't want to participate in that with you."
Guard against wanting to drag it out with endless "What if this? What if that?" type stuff.
Just a "once and for all" and then be prepared to let that BE the once and for all even if the answer isn't something you like.
Last edited by GalaGirl; 12-03-2013 at 09:34 PM.