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Old 12-03-2013, 06:31 PM
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It isn't uncommon. But it isn't "the norm" either.

The bottomline in poly dynamics is that everyone needs to speak up for their needs and negotiate appropriate relationships for themselves. That means, if this isn't right for you, and she isn't willing to alter her availability (through negotiating with her husband) then she isn't the one for you.
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