while we aren't in Oregon, we are in Washington, and I have personally noticed that the poly world seems very critical, and snobby. its rather frustrating. ive even noticed it on here a bit.
try meetup.com they have a lot of groups with likeminded people.
let me know how it goes as hubs and I are new to this and would love to hear how other people are getting along in this world.
cant we all just love eachother?
ill try anything once, twice if I like it.