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Thank you everyone for your input. Yes, it could not hurt offer it. I appreciate the concern regarding states of grief. However, This is something I had given thought to before this process, I was afraid to mention it.
I strong feel letting her go is a mistake. Despite all that is passed we agree that we love eachother more than ever before. Neither of us wishes to separate truly.
My intention with poly isn't to save a relationship so much as to give her an option that may be enough to fill her heart and feel completion.
Nonetheless, it is, what it is. Maybe letting go in deep hope that she will return to me one day is the best I can do right now in conventional means. But I don't believe that at all. We're not conventional and she's not somebody I want to give up on ever.