OMG, some people are just real gits you know that?
This woman was obviously upset and jealous and self aware enough to say so!
Do you know how many people we get here who lack self awareness and come on here demonising metamours because they don't realise that the problem lies with them and not the other person?
This OP recognised her problems and was asking for help to deal and the first responses she gets are 'Spoilt brat' and (presumably, I have "London" on ignore) indicating she is incompatible with her partner?
Shame on you! Pathetic responses, if you are unable to even understand what an OP needs, why bother responding at all.
Good Grief, you shame us all.