Originally Posted by PolyinPractice
Sorry. It's not unique. ....I know others in your same situation. It's poly. . If you need a label. I think most would classify as polyfi. Stop worrying and do what feels right
I think it could only be poly fi if everyone in the network agrees to only have relations with people in the network. They don't have to have relations with everyone in the network, but definitely not with people outside the network. I'd just say the OP and co are in a triad, one member of the triad also has a boyfriend outside the triad.