Originally Posted by hersweetleaf
So basically if hubs and I are wanting to be with just her but she's having sex etc with "ex" bf but we do not want him to be a part of our relationship with us is that still polyfidelious or poly exclusive? Feels more like a friend situation right now. Not sure how to help progress things as we're super relaxed and don't want to make the first move. Lol.
The more I read the more I realize that we're unique and will make our own label.
Sorry. It's not unique. ....I know others in your same situation. It's poly. . If you need a label. I think most would classify as polyfi. Stop worrying and do what feels right