Thread: jealous of sub
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Old 12-01-2013, 03:36 PM
PolyinPractice PolyinPractice is offline
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Originally Posted by london View Post
I don't know why you thought a sub wasnt a partner to begin with. It seems like you took security in being above a sub in some sense and now you've found out that having a sub doesn't mean it isn't a relationship like a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. In fact, kinky people are more likely to settle with someone who is also interested in having kink based sex and/or relationships because of the added compatibility. Instead of taking comfort in you, the vanilla girlfriend, being above any sub he had, you should have thought about negotiating a non monogamous situation that privileges your relationship. Too late now.
I agree... I hope my response didn't indicate that I felt kink relationships weren't "real" relationships
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