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Old 12-01-2013, 12:28 PM
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Originally Posted by london View Post
You see, one of my biggest fears is dating someone who I bond with, and then they decide they don't want either of us to be poly and I have to choose poly or them. Now, I know what I am most likely to choose, poly, but still, the idea of losing someone I've bonded with feels me with dread.

Due to my fear, I won't even reply to someone who either hasn't declared themselves to be non monogamous or mention the fact that I am poly and they are cool with it in their opening message.
How quickly do you bond? If a couple of emails are enough to leave you open to emotional trauma then you may need to work on that before you worry about the size of your dating pool.
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