Yes I will have to talk to him and we always communicate about everything. We went throught this though before we were poly as I said before I am very self concious of myself. I guess I am just feeling like it is not going to help.
I feel like I can sit there and say "Look I feel really upset that you are seeing a 22 year old with a perfect everything " and all it is going to make me do is feel more upset and I know that canned response. What else can you say to someone. I understand that.
I just do not see how it is going to help me feel better. The issue is not him it is me and my insecurities.