I have to agree with grounded spirit on this one.
The bottom line is that for your relationship to be sustainable you each will HAVE to be capable AND WILLING to support one another in whatever it is you each need.
That means you supporting him in whatever HE needs and he supporting you in whatever YOU need.
It means accepting-FULLY accepting that you are both different people, with different needs/desires/comfort levels and neither of you feeling it necessary to CHANGE the other..
Can it be done?
Look at Mono/RP
look at me/Maca
Ciel/his mono partner
It CAN be done.
The question is are you BOTH willing to do that?
Because it won't work unless you are BOTH willing.
"Love As Thou Wilt"
Last edited by LovingRadiance; 03-30-2010 at 01:00 AM.
Reason: to add ciel and his mono-partner