Funny, people in the love addiction forum don't believe in polyamory, people in the polyamory forum don't believe in love addiction!
Yes, I already know the root causes from childhood, and I'm not about to 12-step-away my sexuality. I'm just trying to change some behaviors/thought patterns that do not serve me well in my relationships. Reading stuff on "love addiction" has been helpful in dealing with certain harmful behaviors. I don't care what anyone calls it, to be honest, just interested in fixing it. Along with my reading about love addiction has been lots about polyamory, dating, having a healthy marriage, healing from narcissistic abuse, neuroplasticity, changing thought patterns, midlife crisis, etc. etc. etc., all of it helpful in bits and pieces while I'm trying to transform from caterpillar to gorgeous lunar moth.