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Old 03-29-2010, 09:38 PM
lisbeth lisbeth is offline
Join Date: Mar 2010
Location: California
Posts: 17

hey Confidence,
If your choice of lovers/partners is the only area where he tries to interfere in your decisions, then I think there still is hope to come to an agreement/understanding that works for both of you, by building on those areas of your relationship where he's able to trust you more freely.

On the other hand, if his seemingly controlling behavior is a pattern, this might be insurmountable. For example, does he also try to tell you to drop friends, or influence which jobs/employment you pursue, or change what you eat or wear, for example, "Honey, I know I said I liked those boots you're wearing but I decided they make you look too slutty, can you please return them?"
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