Our quad has been together a little over three years now.
We make it day by day I guess. Like most relationships of any kind.
I can be the glue at times in suppose...simply because I insist in more communication that a couple of them like and are used to. Well, that would be Tech and Kitten. Gator is long used to having to talk with me about things. I don't like leaving things unresolved and swept under a rug.