Originally Posted by Monogamish1
Would it ever be possible to reconcile my wanting mono for myself and wanting a partner mono to me, yet at same time not wanting him to give up his wife or deny his poly nature.
Wanting someone to be mono/exclusive to you is contradictory to wanting them to keep dating or stay married to someone else. Those are opposite ideas.
Did I misunderstand?
Me: male, 40, straight, single